Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Parents really hate my hair and its annoying me!?

Q. My parents really hate my hair style now as they think i look a 'nob' in their words. My family are muslims and i don't follow the religion anymore cause i have different opinions but that isn't the case. Am growing my hair cause i hate the short boring styles to do anime hair styles but because am asian its doubly difficult as i have very very thick strong hair and they keep threatening to kick me out or cut all my hair off when am asleep. Obviously i have to go hairdressers every so often but i also get new highlights in my hair every 3-4 months which they hate even more! I love my style the way it is now because i feel as though it suits the personality i have because am a rocker/metal fan and a big anime fan so i like it but they absolutely hate it and its hurting my self esteem in the sense they make me feel self concious about my self. I think what they hate is the thickness of my hair and they say it looks all boofy when i straighten it so is there any advice to get thinner hair from thick without thinning my hair out cause i already get it thinned at hair dressers. Also i have black hair and usually get darkish brown highlights and next 2-3 weeks am getting dark red in so it makes them hate it even more! -.-
I'd move out if i could but am 18 and not working, my plan is to have to take the annoying comments for the next 3 years whilst i go uni after college, find a job to pay enough for me to live on my own because i have soo many ideas in mind but am trying to play safe but obviously they hate it..


Answer
Well, yeah? They hated my long hair for over 50 years! I've moved out of the house since age 21, and have styled my hair thousands of different styles since then. . . . . a family of my own, so it's not that I was still a kid.

They just hate long hair period. Until one day, my mom heard compliments about my hair when out shopping. I looked @ her and she finally had a small smile, to let me know she 'approved'.

You can either move out, continue fighting & pleasing them, or do what they asked from you. In the 70's, everyone had long hair, but I couldn't, but I did anyway.

You have thick hair, you don't want to thin them, unless you're cutting split ends. They will just grow weird. Chemicals are damaging to the hair, and too much of that causes hair loss, but I can't tell you not to stop using chemicals, but I'd rather say: cutting or thinning the hair is better than messing with chemicals. Even Lourdes, Madonna's DD, had an undercut because her mom is very strict, instead of chemicals do that. Chemicals can enter the body through the skin.

Chemicals also causes cancer. Google hair dyes & cancer.
Google: A 38-year old mother left in a coma after using hair dye. 11-22-11. SHE DYED HER HAIR MANY TIMES BEFORE, USING THE SAME BRAND.

Permanent black hair dye is linked to causing leukemia and lymphomas.

Google Salon Hair Dye Lawsuits. About 336,000 results (0.17 seconds) Dec. 2011
When it comes to hair care treatments, product use or visits to a salon or spa, the consumer must take responsibility to do their homework and be aware of all the risks involved.
Vanessa Minnillo Lachey: "I dated a guy once who wanted me to have blonde hair. Clearly, he was the wrong guy for me! I went to a lady who bleached my hair and it literally fell out. So, not only did I go back to my natural hair, I broke up with the guy!"

One example: MY HAIR DRESSER DYED MY HAIR GREY. I've been crying for the last 2 hours, I want to kill that bish for destroying what was amazing bleach blonde hair. AND to make things worse, she cut my extensions WAY too short.

"23 years old Rihanna is well known for changing her hairstyle and hair colour on a regular basis and it looks as though all those treatments have finally begun to take their toll on her mane and perhaps her common sense." US Showbiz 2-18-12 Rihanna has reportedly paid $23,500 for an emergency haircut after hers was ruined in a sauna, to fly out hair stylist from L.A. to London..The Province 3-1-12.
A WOMAN was temporarily blinded when her face swelled up "like a football" following what she told was a severe reaction to hair dye.
Carmen Rowe, 25, from Swansea was hospitalised for three days after using the Clairol 'Nice n' Easy' natural black colour. She said: "I lost my job, all for the sake of a glamorous hairstyle. I just want to warn parents what could happen." She claimed she carried out a skin test 48 hours before using the dye without a problem and has been colouring her hair since she was 13. March 3, 2012.

Sources:
Google FDA.gov & search for Hair Dye & Relaxers.
Google: Hair Dye FAQ's Are Hair Dyes Safe?

Does any one know a Woman Born Joyce Ann Smith in her 50's who as a young girl had very red hair?




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