Creepy Dream has been bothering me.....?

LiLLy16

Does anyone have any interpretations/advice for me? i've had this creepy dream 8 times, once every week. Usually on a Wednesday, sometimes on fridays.
this story seems to take place in the 50s/40s, at least that's the style of clothing everyone's wearing in the dream, all trench coats and hats and dresses....
i'm a police officer assigned to guard this famous actress whose been getting death threats. she has red hair and is funny. i'm guarding her while she's at this studio/thing meeting w/ her agent, and suddenly i see this guy. he's supposed to be my fiance. i go over and talk with him for a while. then he leaves and i take a walk. i'm trying to convince myself to go back to protecting, but it's like my legs won't allow me to walk back to the studio. suddenly, the chief of police is there. he tells me that the actress is missing. i feel really guilty. me and the chief jump into the car and drive around looking for her until we get word that she had been found.... murdered. i start to cry because i feel so guilty and the chief keeps telling me it's not my fault when we're at the crime scene (which is the studio, no body, just yellow police tape everywhere). suddenly, i see my "fiance" lurking in the shadows, and i come to the realization that he is the killer.

then, i wake up.

weird, right? can you guys help me with advice or interpretations? thanks so much!
haha, yeah, i'm pretty crazy. i agree tho, remembering dreams (even when they're freaky) is the best!

Answer
Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach us something about ourselves. Unfortunately many a times we forget what we dream about as we go about our daily routine. With recurring dreams, the message may be so important and/or powerful that it just will not go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream. The dream is trying desperately to tell you something. Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them.

To dream that you are a police officer, represents your own sense of morality and conscience. The dream may serve to guide you down a straight path. If you have recurring dreams that you are a police officer, then it may mean that your past actions have left you feeling guilty. Consider your behavior/actions as the cop.

i think your fiance has to do this

Why are men becoming more and more brainwashed about female beauty?

Victoria

I feel like men, ESPECIALLY black men have been brainwashed with "white beauty" and have formed these crazy obsessions with lighter skinned women.

I am becoming more, and more convinced that a black man will choose a basic light skinned girl ANYDAY over a fine dark skinned one.

So why do most men think that the ideal women should have light skin, light eyes, long hair, and slender and curvy? Is it really a preference or the result of brainwashing?

Now be honest guys, would you choose to date a light skinned girl who rated like a 6, or a dark skinned girl who rates a 7?

Answer
Some black men have been conditioned to like light skinned women over dark skinned women because of today's media. It wasn't like this back in the 50s through 90s. It happened when the image of a black women changed to having multiple features of both Eurocentric and Afrocentric features (Halle Berry)

It just so happened that women with these features were either biracial or light skinned. Thus people made the assumption that the only women with Eurocentric and Afrocentric features are biracial and light skinned black women. Those women were then stigmatized as exotic and having a beauty beyond comparison.

The music industry played a vital role in this as well because they are publicly showing this. Not only are they selling their music which may be good or bad, they are selling an image.
---Image of what is trendy (swag, skinny jeans, big booty, big boobs, long hair)
---Image of whats good looking (yellow bone red bone)

That further conditioned black men to admiring light skinned and lighter women.

Personally, this is exactly why I bashed and blame the media for most things. The people that show these things are doing it for marketing reasons and personal reasons. They might not realize that what they are doing is affecting the youth. Ideas get passed down so if we all grow up believing one thing, we're likely to pass that idea down to our kids.


Lastly, I tend to rebel against the image the media portray of people, and the message they are persuading people to believe.
My preference is actually dark skinned black women like this porn actress
http://i.picasion.com/pic76/7e49626608bcfd2b49f3651343f1c42d.gif
(it was extremely hard to find a clean picture, but I did lol)

The media claims that women of that color is unattractive, all I say is less competition for me.
So I would date a dark skinned girl who is a 7, without regrets or hesitation :)

BUT do not get me wrong. I date people who meet my standards of having a good personality, not having a good skin color.
As long as we click positively, I like her. If she got dark chocolate skin, that is a plus.

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